When you’re retired, going on vacation, that is, taking time
away from your normal routine of doing as little as possible, carries almost
exponential possibilities for sloth, especially if you’re “going home,” that
is, returning to your place of origin, where your family takes complete care of
you, and doubly especially, if your “home” is Mercer, Pennsylvania, where,
according to loved ones who still live there, “nothing ever happens.” If
indolence is one’s objective, Mercer is the place to do it—or not do whatever
it is that makes for it.
We watch the big screen TV, sports: NCAA women’s softball, NCAA
men’s baseball, MLB baseball, the Buccos, an LPGA tournament, men’s
professional golf, the NBA quarterfinals, a few minutes of the NHL, the French
Open, and, yes, the American Cornhole League. And fishing, an actual broadcast
of others’ impressive and yet imperfect attempt at inactivity. The chair into
which I sink to spectate folds in around me, a throne of comfort, with an
ottoman of ease at my feet, a nap-enabling matched set of cushions affording
light dozes that restore my attention to mindless observational sufficiency but
never, thankfully, to critical cognition. I’m not sure the world merits it
anymore. We did get out to golf once, the most indolent, the least active of
activities—the brothers carted. I walked the good walk spoiled. Then it rained.
And we returned to the big screen.
When the weather allows—when it is warmer and less drizzly—I
lounge in the sun, passively absorbing solar radiation, dissipating energy into
the boundless universe, then golf again, a stressless bogey round, two pars,
two double bogeys, and the rest bogey, not unlike the ideal even-par round of
two birdies, two bogeys, and the rest pars—only bogey. Of a good morning I’ll
sit on the front porch with a cup of tea and watch the traffic, truckers
trucking, people going to work, poor devils.
Today, a visit to the cemetery: to the only population less
active than myself. They’ve perfected repose. I commune with my dead. They
don’t say much. We listen to the wind in the trees, the cooing of a mourning
dove, a single fly buzzing. I leave a token of the visit for my father, a golf
tee from St. Andrew’s, though I miss my mother more. They walk the earth no longer
these five years. I see a stone for Frank D__, whom I had, coincidentally, just
seen up at my brother’s, spry as ever, though recounting the recent implant of
a pacemaker. His wife had died in 2019. Only Frank’s birthdate was recorded. I calculate
he’s eighty-five.
I am agnostic about posthumous consciousness. Of many possibilities
are these two, which come to mind: Heaven
is either an extension of retirement or retirement the only heaven many of us
will know.